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Phoenix Infidelity

For Betrayed Men - By Betrayed Men

Welcome to Phoenix Infidelity where we help you to heal from the pain and trauma of betrayal. Here you will find the guidance you need to turn your scars into tattoos that begin to resemble the stripes of a warrior…

Infidelity Trauma Counseling

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Packed with in depth discussions about everything surrounding infidelity. Understand… heal… grow.

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This true story of betrayal gives insight into female mating behaviour and shows the dire consequences when a man’s perceived sexual value drops in a woman’s eyes.

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When you subscribe you get a free online counseling session + a mental and physical program to get you started on your warrior’s journey. 

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The Story Behind Phoenix Infidelity

Having personally overcome infidelity trauma, I decided to turn my experience into something noble and meaningful. Through my studies of psychology and by delving into strength and conditioning, I not only developed resilience but also acquired the expertise to navigate others through the intricate labyrinth of broken trust and lost masculinity. The in depth conversations with professional counsellors shed light on all areas of this difficult topic and aim at helping men accelerate their healing process. We also bring betrayed men together to speak out about the things they wish they had done differently and help guide other men through the storm of betrayal. We hope to be a beacon of hope for guys that have been cheated on and our goal is to help turn their scars into tattoos that eventually begin to resemble the stripes of a warrior. 

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Episode 3 - The Psychology of Infidelity Trauma

Today we look at the psychology and brain science behind infidelity trauma and we extract a lot of key knowledge on this topic from Bessel van der Kolk’s book “The body keeps score.

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Episode 5 - Hypergamy

In this conversation we introduce the controversial theory of hypergamy and reasons for infidelity based on Dr. Buss’ research.

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Episode 9 - Predictors of Infidelity pt 2

In this conversation I introduce a useful analogy that might help us to understand why we need not take on the blame yet at the same time take responsibility in order to move forward.

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What People Say

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Arnfried makes you feel safe as he helps you journey through some of life's most difficult seasons.
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Being able to have a safe place to open up and see the world with a different view. Extremely great at listening, asking the right questions in a friendly and sincere manner.
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I found the sessions I had very professional but also down to earth and comfortable. Anfried always found hope in all our conversations. I recommend his heartfelt and discreet council.
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Arnfried's wise counsel and practical guidance helped restore our marriage. He equipped us with skills that were easy to apply to our everyday interactions and therefore avoid unnecessary conflict.
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