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Introduction

The Phoenix Infidelity Podcast
The Phoenix Infidelity Podcast
Introduction to Phoenix Infidelity
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Introduction to Phoenix Infidelity

Introduction to Phoenix Infidelity

A short introduction about what you can expect from this Podcast.

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There's someone else... Now what?

There's someone else... Now what?

In this 1st conversation we cover the initial stages of shock and denial and I talk a little bit about my theory of emotional lock down.

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Stages of Grief

Stages of Grief

In this conversation we cover the initial stages of shock and denial and I talk a little bit about my theory of emotional lock down.

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The Psychology of Infidelity Trauma pt.1

The Psychology of Infidelity Trauma pt.1

Today we look at the psychology and brain science behind infidelity trauma and we extract a lot of key knowledge on this topic from Bessel van der Kolk’s book “The body keeps score...

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The Psychology of Infidelity pt.2

The Psychology of Infidelity pt.2

In this second part of this two part series we divert our attention to key strategies and types of therapies that have proven to be extremely beneficial in trauma recovery.

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Hypergamy pt 1

Hypergamy pt 1

In this conversation we go into more depth with regards to the stages of grief according to Kubler-Ross model.

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How your personality affects your healing #bigfivepersonalitytest

How your personality affects your healing #bigfivepersonalitytest

In today’s conversation we explore both the positive and negative aspects of scoring either high or low on any given trait within the big 5 personality scale.

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A Meditation for the Betrayed (1)

A Meditation for the Betrayed (1)

In episode 5 we go into depth on the topic of meditation and talk about the why and how behind this powerful practice. So that is what this session is all about... Putting it into practice.

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An Interview with a Betrayed 1 - #infidelityinmarriage #betrayaltrauma

An Interview with a Betrayed 1 - #infidelityinmarriage #betrayaltrauma

Today I’m speaking to a phoenix. This is yet another man that has walked the hero’s journey through the storm of infidelity and not only survived but became a warrior in his own right.

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The Strong Predictors of infidelity

The Strong Predictors of infidelity

In this conversation we talk about the strong predictors of infidelity according to John Gottman. We also discuss how long it normally takes for a woman to become discontent to the point that she considers being unfaithful to her partner

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The Strong Predictors of infidelity pt 2

The Strong Predictors of infidelity pt 2

In this conversation I introduce a useful analogy that might help us to understand why we need not take on the blame yet at the same time take responsibility in order to move forward.

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Limerence... it's a powerful DRUG!

Limerence... it's a powerful DRUG!

In this conversation we talk about this term “Limerence” and how the unfaithful partner’s experience of romantic love probably shares similarities with addiction based on Dr. Helen Fisher’s studies.

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To Take Revenge... Worth it?

To Take Revenge... Worth it?

In this conversation we discuss strategies on how to deal with the feelings of anger and revenge felt towards the affair partner.

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Who are your real friends in the storm of betrayal? - Phoenix Infidelity - Ep12 - #infidelityinmarriage

Who are your real friends in the storm of betrayal? - Phoenix Infidelity - Ep12 - #infidelityinmarriage

Today’s conversation is all about one’s support system during the storm of infidelity. We explore the topic of who one can to talk to and who one would rather avoid when it comes to sharing your side of the story.

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Why remorse is NOT optional - Phoenix Infidelity - Ep13 - #infidelityrecovery

Why remorse is NOT optional - Phoenix Infidelity - Ep13 - #infidelityrecovery

In today’s conversation we talk about remorse and why it is such an important element in the healing process.

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Navigating Betrayal: Should You Stay or Leave?

Navigating Betrayal: Should You Stay or Leave?

In today’s conversation, we tackle the question of whether one should stay or leave the relationship after having been betrayed.

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About the show

Phoenix Infidelity is a platform dedicated to helping individuals heal from the pain and trauma of betrayal. Here’s a quick summary of what we offer:

  1. Infidelity Trauma Counseling: Personalized guidance to navigate through broken trust and lost masculinity.
  2. The Podcast: In-depth discussions surrounding infidelity, aimed at understanding, healing, and growing.
  3. The Memoir: A true story of betrayal that provides insights into female mating behavior and the consequences of a man’s perceived sexual value dropping.
  4. The Challenge: A 24-month growth plan that culminates in exclusive high-quality tank tops, symbolizing a rite of passage.
  5. Counseling: Free online counseling sessions and mental and physical programs to start the warrior’s journey.
  6. Community Support: Bringing betrayed men together to share experiences and guide others through the storm of betrayal.

 The platform aims to be a beacon of hope for those who have been cheated on, turning their scars into tattoos that eventually resemble the stripes of a warrior.

Meet the Hosts

Thean Heyneke

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Arnfried Klein-Werner

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